Angie's Tiny Word

Hey all! Now i don't know about you but it really upsets me when someone sees a post and just think they know whats going on in your head at that moment. Just because I'm hurting at the moment because of a lost friend doesn't mean I'm going to cut, it doesn't mean something bad didn't happen to me. Nobody really knows what it means but ME and if you disagree don't comment trying to prove me wrong because that's not helping the pain at all.

In reality some peoples lives ARE that hard like kids who get abused, inappropriately touched, bullied, people like that who have all three of those things going on in their lives may not have somewhere to go and may think that their only option is to cut. You and I may know its other ways but kids like that who have  been getting hurt all their lives don't see it that way they may see it as "this is the part i have control of" or "its my way to escape" people have other problems in life besides what color nail polish to use and its not right for you to judge them or try to "help" because they don't see it as help they see it as you trying to decide something else in their life and that's going to make them want it more. Take it from someone who knows about problems like this because of past friendships and someone who lost their life because they couldn't see I was trying to help when i didn't know what she was REALLY going through. So you cant say their life isnt "SO HARD" because Im positive you dont know the life story of everyone who has ever cut.

So maybe next time if you see someones wrist and notice cut marks, don't judge them because of it. if you see someone post about something painful don't try to post negative things about it. At least TRY to talk to them about it and if they refuse dont push them. They'll ask for help when they're ready but only if you see it getting to far then and ONLY THEN call for help, ask someone for help, do something.